I am told girls want a god fearing man. Most of what i see is female promiscuity with men that are pigs. Why?

I read all these articles that girls want a challenge and the christian man is boring and uninteresting. I see websites that show all kinds of promiscous things. These women are degraded and they seem to be okay with this. I thought women wanted love and respect, but these men on the internet don't respect them. Why do females say one thing about love and respect and then do hanness acts on the internet for everyone to see. It's all very confusing to a guy who wants to love and respect a female for who God created them to be (precious daughters of God), yet I see females being promiscous and degraded and they participate in this willfully with men who are obviously only watching out for their best interest. These messages are confusing. I treated my ex wife with love and respect and she cheated on me with a married man who was a lead singer of a band. He was good looking and cocky. But she preferred that excitement and "party" fun atmosphere over her husband who was at home praying for their marriage. I guess I was too "boring" for her. It really pisses me off. i don't understand women any better than I did as a teen. They say they want love and respect and a man that won't cheat, yet so many cheat on their boyfriends because they aren't "bad Boys" and treat them like they don't care and act like a "challenge." So because I was at home and preferred to watch a movie with her i wasn't enough of a challenge and she wanted to wild guy band singer? Hmmm. So, because men that sing and play music women throw themselves at over their faithful husbands because they are such bad asses? It's a rush and exciting maybe? So let's throw away all values and morals because some men are exciting to pursue on the side? sounds pretty freakin selfish. If that is how females think, then why even marry and pretend that you want all this love and respect while you could drop the guy in a heart beat for something more "exciting?'' Is this how it is or did I just get a bad apple?